on the evening of feb 18, my parents told a shocking news to us. actually it was a big problem of my brother. oh my! what the! he have a baby na pala. a 5 months old cutie girl named ansherinah daphne. for more than a year, my brother and sister kept to us the pregnancy, the giving birth and the baptism.
my mom and dad were shocked, hurt and mad. we didn't expected it. my brother is just 15 years old, too young to have a big responsibility on his back. then, we have to pay P50,000 to the family of the girl because of their expenses in the hospital.
i was so mad at my siblings. we have a lot of problems, didn't know what to solve first then here comes another.. pls. pls. pls. i wanna die. i felt i had enough of it all.
but seeing my parents open-mindedly accepted the problem and forgave my brother, gave me the strength to live and be strong. luckily, i have parents who love unconditionally and who have a strong faith in God that everything will be alright after every rainfall.
i didn't speak to my siblings for two days especially to my brother. i felt i was alone striving hard for our family and getting no help from them. but my parents advised me to forgive my brother because what he's going thru these past few days is not a joke. not seeing his baby and no communication with his gf is really hard nga naman. naaawa din ako.
also, i realised that having a baby is not a problem but a blessing to my family. every life is a gift from God. whatever His reason is for giving us this trial, i know that there is a lesson to be learned in the end. maybe, my brother and his gf have already learned anyway.
i saw the baby last sun. afternoon. we went to the girl's house at quezon city. her lola told us that she couldn't sleep the whole morning, seems that she's waiting for someone. she smiled and laughed when my mom carried her in her arms. she even slept in my arms. haayyy.. what a cute baby. i just hoped that we could bring her home. hehe
i guess.. the problem is over. thank you Lord. though we still need to pay the P50,000.. im thankful that both parties are in good relationship. thanks to daphne. she's really a blessing.
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